When we were trying to figure out songs for Martin's celebration of life there were so many to choose from. Martin loved music. He wasn't a word-to-the-song type guy, he was more of an instruments type of guy. He couldn't tell you many of the words to a song but he knew the tune. We... Continue Reading →
Then There’s Days You Just Need To Laugh
Martin was funny and sometimes downright goofy. This picture was taken when we came home from his biopsy. He was hurting and decided that he would try the CBD stuff. So he did. I was working away sitting on the couch next to him and he was chatting with his BFF Shock ( there is... Continue Reading →
Martin’s Last Birthday
Martin passed away four days after his 57th birthday. With his condition, we were unsure how to celebrate. We had always had company over and grilled or gone to eat at someplace great. After all that was Martin's favorite thing to do, eat. This year was different, he was different. We have some wonderful friends.... Continue Reading →
There Is A Place
Has anyone taken a selfie with this? It's one of the most "instagramable" locations in Tulum. All through Martin’s journey, I knew one thing. When he was healed and the mesothelioma was under control we would go here. Take Martin’s photo in front of this. Why? To me, it looks like someone with a healthy... Continue Reading →
Gratitude: Martin’s Sister Pat
How do you describe someone that drops everything, leaves their family, and drives for 6 hours to come here, help us in the messiest times of our life? A sister... that is what you call it. Pat was the family member that Martin relied on. She was never more than a phone call away. Pat... Continue Reading →
It’s Weird
Grief does weird things to you.
Bringing Martin Home
After being in the hospital for two and a half weeks, we were tired. At this point, Martin couldn't say much and no doctor or nurse could tell me why. MRI was stable but an EEG test results show that his brain waves were changing. Now he is sleeping a lot and barely eating. When... Continue Reading →
The Toughest Day
I had spent two days writing some things down to say about Martin during his service. Just a few thoughts so the people who had not spent much time with Martin had an idea of who he was beside the Mesothelioma patient that he would be remembered for. Martin thought that was neat that I... Continue Reading →
The New Begining
Today was the first time I had been back to worship with our church family in Crosby. It was great to be back. With Martin sick, we mainly watched church service online. Very rarely, I could leave and attend church with the White's Park congregation. It was a quick drive east on i-10. I love... Continue Reading →